BDSM

Whats is FemDom Fetish?

There are many interpretations of fetish femdom, the act of a male being submissive to a dominating female figure, or the Mistress as she is often called. The activities of this fetish consist of anything from role reversal to more extreme games such as torture or anything that can be interpreted as dominant acts.

Limits do not exist here, this being the main difference between fetish femdom and other fetishes. The activities are determined by the dominant female in consent with her submissive, but often they are taken to higher levels than expected, making this fetish one of the most desired ones.

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Bondage Tips & Facts

Over the past decade there have been a handful of books that have powerfully and positively nudged women out of their comfort zones and into the mysterious unknown. The most recent and racy of the bunch, 50 Shades of Grey, has given even the globe’s most reserved women the courage to explore their previously dormant or formerly perceived taboo, innermost fantasies.

Reviewing the findings of the latest Global Survey presented in a handy infographic, we were pleasantly surprised by the amount of women experimenting with soft BDSMaccessories (not to mention sexting). We’ve also seen increased interest in topics surrounding  BDSM basics, from hard limits to how to perform aftercare.

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Edging and How Can I Do it?

Edging, or orgasm control, has been popping up in mainstream culture more and more recently, but what is it exactly? And, more importantly, how can it be used to not only improve your sex life, but also to turn up the kink?

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BDSM Aftercare

If you’re curious about exploring BDSM with your partner, it can seem like there is an endless list of considerations. It’s not quite as simple as dressing up a certain way and tying your partner up; you both need to discuss what fantasy you’re interested in, set your hard and soft limits, pick your safe words… and then the step that many don’t think to prepare for: aftercare.

Even though it takes place ‘after’ a scene, aftercare requires forethought and conversation. But what is it exactly?

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Bondage Tips For beginners

If the word ‘bondage’ fills your mind’s eye with shocking images of leather masks, uncomfortable looking spikes and being locked away in a dark cellar somewhere in central Europe, you, along with almost everybody in Hollywood it seems, have probably slightly misunderstood what bondage actually is.

Bondage is the idea of enjoying sexual gratification through the act of being restrained. All that other stuff is BDSM (or Bondage and Discipline with Sadomasochism if you will) and, put simply, the difference between bondage and BDSM is with bondage, you can enjoy the gain but without the pain.

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When Did BDSM Become So Popular?

The public perception of kink is shifting to match the reality. More and more people are coming to see your typical BDSM practitioner as the man or woman next door who enjoys consensual role-play along with, maybe, a dollop of pain on the side (or elsewhere).

It’s the more accurate view that every group has its outliers, kinky people tend to be well-adjusted and emotionally stable, we’re healthy, high-functioning people. Most of the people who are into kink use it as a way to enhance conventional sexual practices. It’s not all that different from what other people do. There’s a little bit of bondage, a little bit of spanking, and then fucking.

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Introduction to BDSM

New To BDSM?
For those lovers who wish to venture into uncharted waters in the bedroom, BDSM practices can be great outlets for expressing erotic, and some non-erotic desires.

In many countries around the world, men and women have been engaging in different types of BDSM activities for a long time.

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Beginners Guide To Domination

This Great post was Written by Master_James_ over on Fetlife and i just thought it were too good not to share. You may have only just found Fetlife, you may have only just found your local Kink community, you may have only just had the epiphany that you are a . Suddenly, your life all makes sense. The penny has dropped and all the cogs in your head are turning, in what feels like the first time.

Now you know you are dominant, you want to get on with the business actually being a Dominant. But where to start? The following is nothing more than the opinion of one man. It is not designed to put anyone down, be condescending or negative. It is designed to empower, guide, and give a start point for men new to the concept of Dominance as a life choice and relationship role.

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Consensual BDSM – The Imperative Rule

The first consideration about BDSM is that it’s a safe form of sex that is also consensual. The only way how sex can really be suitable is if it is consensual. That is, the people engaged in sex have to agree to it and will want to participate in some unique form of sex if desired. It only makes sense for both parties to have some semblance of enjoyment if they’re going to engage in sex.

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Coming Out The Fetish Closet

For many people, coming out is a process of revealing their true identity—whether it’s being gay, trans, or a Democrat in Texas. It isn’t always easy, and there isn’t a pre-written script explaining how to do it, but coming out can be freeing.

When you have a sexual fetish, though, should you always “come out” about it? How do you decide who to tell and from who to keep it a secret? And when you do decide to tell someone, what’s the best way to explain: “Mom, Dad… I like to be electrocuted during sex”?

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